How does one succeed in life?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Hangs out with loser friends.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

How do you know how physically attractive you actually are?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Why are so many young teenage boys misogynistic? Where do they get these attitudes from?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Does not procrastinate.

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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Procrastinates a lot.

Why does Trump keep blaming Ukraine for getting invaded by Russia?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

One day, I happened to walk past where my crush was with friends. Then all of a sudden they start laughing, and someone maybe him, goes "freaking (my name) with her freaking hair!" Can anyone offer insights into this? We're in middle school.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

What I need from you?

What would happen if the Soviet Union had simply annexed Manchuria after World War 2 or kept it independent as a puppet state allied them and separate from China as China was too weak too oppose it anyway?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

That's it for today.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Ask yourself:

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Making more friends is a goal.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Do not set goals—set systems.